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A Dementia Diagnosis Doesn’t Always Mean You Will Lose Your Home to Care Fees

Elderly couple sitting safely together in their home, looking relieved after a dementia diagnosis, symbolising that a diagnosis does not always mean losing the family home to care fees.

The rules around dementia diagnosis and care fees UK are far more complex, and in many cases, families have stronger protections than they realise.

Across the UK, thousands of families panic the moment a loved one receives a dementia diagnosis.
The fear is always the same:
“Will we lose the house if Mum needs care?”

While dementia can create deep emotional and financial stress, the truth is that a dementia diagnosis does not automatically mean you will lose your home to care fees.
The rules around dementia, care assessments, and property protection are far more nuanced — and understanding them can make a life-changing difference.

Why People Fear Losing Their Home After a Dementia Diagnosis

There is a widespread belief in the UK that if someone develops dementia, the council will simply take their home to pay for care.
This fear exists for several reasons:

  • Care in the UK can cost £1,200–£1,500 per week

  • Many people don’t realise the NHS does not cover long-term dementia care

  • Local councils carry out strict financial assessments

  • Families often hear horror stories from neighbours or friends

But the reality is more complex — and often far more hopeful.

Your Home Is Not Automatically Included in a Financial Assessment

Even with a dementia diagnosis, your home may be protected depending on your circumstances.
Here are the key protections many families don’t know about:

1. If a spouse, partner, or certain relatives live in the home — it cannot be taken.

The council must disregard the property if it is still occupied by:

  • A spouse or civil partner

  • A partner (even if not married)

  • A disabled relative

  • A relative over 60

  • A dependent child

This rule alone protects thousands of homes every year — but few people know it exists.

Dementia Does Not Automatically Mean Residential Care

Another misunderstanding around dementia diagnosis and care fees UK is the assumption that dementia always leads to a care home.
In reality:

  • Many people with dementia stay in their own home

  • They may receive community care, home-help, home carers, or support from family

  • Some people never require residential care at all

A diagnosis is not a guarantee of losing independence.
Some people live many meaningful years at home, especially with early support.

The NHS May Pay — But Families Often Don’t Realise It

If dementia progresses to the point where care becomes a medical need, the NHS may cover the full cost under NHS Continuing Healthcare (CHC).

CHC is not income- or savings-based.
If approved:

  • 100% of care fees are paid

  • Your savings are protected

  • Your home stays protected

Not everyone qualifies, but many families never even apply.
This is one of the biggest missed opportunities in the UK.

Why Some People Do Lose Their Homes — and How to Prevent It

People only risk their home when:

  • They enter residential care and

  • No qualified relative remains in the home and

  • Their total assets exceed £23,250 and

  • No planning was done beforehand

But with early estate planning — including changing how the property is owned, updating wills, and using certain protective tools — many families avoid this entirely.

This is why more people are now seeking guidance when concerns about dementia first arise, rather than waiting until decisions are urgent and stressful.

Dementia Diagnosis and Care Fees UK – What Families Can Do Right Now

Early, lawful planning can make a huge difference.
Options may include:

  • Switching from joint tenancy to tenants in common

  • Updating wills to ensure each partner’s 50% is protected

  • Using dementia-friendly estate planning tools

  • Structuring assets so the home is not fully exposed

  • Understanding when the council can and cannot include property

These strategies are legal when done properly — but timing matters.

This is why understanding dementia diagnosis and care fees UK early on gives families far more control.

Final Thoughts: A Dementia Diagnosis Is Not the End

Dementia is frightening — but losing your home doesn’t have to be part of that story.
With the right understanding of dementia diagnosis and care fees UK, families can protect their property, reduce stress, and plan confidently for the future.

If you want clear, free information about protecting a family home from future care fees, you can request a free online consultation below.
Several estate planners across the UK have agreed to help raise awareness and provide guidance at no cost.


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